You’re Fired! Common Mistakes That Lose Customers
Five best-selling authors, Speaker Hall of Fame recipients, internationally-acclaimed business consultants and best buddies give their insights on business and life.
From Randy Pennington:
We fired the service that had done all of our lawn care, landscaping, tree trimming, and holiday lights for 17 years. There wasn’t one single incident that caused us to leave. It was the culmination of a number of little things over an 18 month period.
In the beginning, the owner closely supervised the crews, paid attention to quality, and was excellent in following up and communicating. Then again, his business was new and hungry.
Over the years, the service level and responsiveness diminished. Emails and telephone messages went unanswered for up to a week. The quality of the work became inconsistent, and we could no longer count on him to follow-through on requests without constant prodding.
And yet, we weren’t really looking to change. He’s a good guy, and we tried to understand when he told us that he had so much business that keeping up was difficult. But we fired this provider for the same reasons that many personal relationships fail – inattention. We felt ignored and taken for granted. Someone made us feel wanted by asking for our business, and we said, “What have we got to lose?”
Randy Pennington helps leaders deliver positive results in a world of accelerating change. To find out more, go to www.penningtongroup.com.
From Joe Calloway:
A couple of years ago I fired a company that had become irrelevant to me, but the ensuing madness and incompetence was almost beyond description. I will never do business with them again. I had a telephone line with AT&T for my office – a land line that I almost never used. Finally I pulled the plug, cancelled the service and that was that. Not.
For six months I dealt with AT&T reps who threatened me with collection agency action for my unpaid bill – on a line I had cancelled months earlier. One rep would say “I’ll take care of it.” The next day I’d get a letter from their legal department saying “You’re delinquent on your bill – we’re suing.” Back and forth, to and fro, one rep more incompetent and uncaring than the next.
I think the two, big, common mistakes that AT&T made were 1) having a system in which one department had no idea what another was doing, and, 2) hiring people who simply didn’t care about the customer.
I guess if I were to boil it down even more, I’d say to AT&T, “Don’t be incompetent. Don’t be mean. Don’t be stupid.”
Peace out.
Joe Calloway helps great companies get even better. www.JoeCalloway.com
From Larry Winget:
I set an appointment to buy garage doors. He didn’t show and didn’t call to let me know he was running late. He didn’t answer his phone when I called. When he got there four hours later, I told him I wasn’t doing business with him because he was disrespectful of my time and that if he couldn’t keep his word about an appointment, then I didn’t trust his doors, quote or delivery date.
An air conditioning company left a mess behind after working on my air conditioner. They could have sold me a new one, but after leaving their food wrappers and wire clippings in my yard, I found another company.
A doctor’s receptionist told me to “go sit down” when I inquired why it was an hour after my appointment time and I still hadn’t been seen. I’m a grown man; you don’t get to talk to me like I’m 7 years old when I inquire why you can’t keep your word.
My motto: Do what you said you would do, when you said you would do it, the way you said you would do it. If you don’t, you’re a liar and we won’t do business.
Larry Winget, the Pitbull of Personal Development®, is a six-time NYT/WSJ bestselling author, social commentator and appears regularly on many national television news shows. To find out more, go to www.LarryWinget.com.
From Mark Sanborn:
I fired one of my favorite restaurant chains.
I took my family to our local Pappadeaux Seafood Kitchen to celebrate a birthday. The experience was a parody of what should have happened: slow service, wrong drink orders, wrong food orders and more. It was exasperating.
A young manager, however, saved the day. She comped the entire meal and provided me a $50 gift certificate to encourage me to return.
I tried to compliment her to corporate. The website feedback form was convoluted but I filled in the required information and praised the assistant manager. The promised “response within 48 hours” never came.
I called corporate to follow up. Whoever I spoke to wasn’t very helpful, so I asked for a manager to call me. Instead the local store manager called and left a message. He said he’d be out of town for a few days and would follow up when he returned. He never did.
When I tried to use the $50 certificate, I found unexpected restrictions. It was the final straw.
At the time I was writing a Five Friends blog about our favorite restaurants. I dropped Pappadeauxs from the list.
Mark Sanborn is president of Sanborn & Associates, Inc., an idea studio for leadership development. He is an award-winning speaker bestselling author of books including, The Fred Factor. For more information and free resources, visit www.marksanborn.com.
From Scott McKain:
My wife and I were sharing with her oncologist about our just-completed weekend in Napa.
The doctor said to us, “Don’t spend your time doing frivolous things like Napa. Your life will be ending soon.”
I was flabbergasted – why would you not want to enjoy the time you had left?
“Sheri’s situation is terminal and she will be gone soon.” The doctor was talking as if my wife wasn’t sitting right there in front of her.
Standing up, and looking at the doctor, I said three words to her: “You are fired.”
Her jaw dropped. “You can’t fire me,” she replied, “I’m a doctor.”
“Call it whatever you want,” I said, “but you will never see us again.”
We found another oncologist – a wonderful, compassionate doctor – and Sheri had another three years of full living, enjoying each day.
Sometimes when we think about firing, we tend to think of the examples of retailers or service providers that are mentioned by my friends here.
Yet, when professionals at the highest level of social respect fail to exhibit empathy, or place themselves on a pedestal that interferes with the experience of the customer, client, or patient – they, too, deserve to be fired.
Scott McKain teaches how organizations and individual professionals can create distinction in their marketplace, and deliver the “Ultimate Customer Experience ®.” For more information: www.ScottMcKain.com
Wow – the experience with that oncologist sounds surreal. I can’t *imagine* having to deal with such a callous person, when she was supposed to be EASING pain. Whatever happened to “First, Do No Harm”?
I really like the ways you five friends don’t put up with poor servcie and have the courage to say something about it. I am encouraged to do the same. I recently travelled by car from Philadelphia to Dallas, and I fire McDonald’s. Their customer service was terrible wherever I went. It’s no wonder their sales are down.
Anyway, keep of the good work. I love to read about your experiences and comments.
Reading these blogs has given me the kick I needed to fire some people and services in my life. I am very slow to do this which frustrates me even more, but not any longer. From now on, when I am paying for a service I will be expecting that service to be delivered to my complete satisfaction.
Thank you for your encouragement.
Great segment as always, gentlemen. Joe, can’t blame you for firing AT&T. I had trouble with them as well. Larry, always enjoy the story about the garage door guy. Mark, never fired a restaurant chain before, but the Pappadeaux Seafood Kitchen by us simply went out of business. Maybe too many people had your type of experience. Scott, so sorry to her the doctor say that about your wife. If I were in your position at the time, he would have not only been fired, he probably would have gotten a fist to his face too!
Thank you 5 Guys. Keep up the great work!
Joe, you do not want to hear or believe my experience with AT&T on corporate wireline invoicing. When I tell people, they do not believe the stories to be true. I feel your pain.
All of these comments hit the mark, but that oncologist one, wow! I probably would have exploded right then and there.
Great examples and timely ‘sharing’ as I see so many people settle for less these days – particularly in restaurants. I was out for dinner with friends the other night and they kept commenting about how great it was to have a HOT meal delivered to the table – and just how good the food was. Geez. Really? We have become accustomed to settling – and paying for it! Being on the road as much and as often as I am, that’s where I draw the line – when it comes to paying good money for a meal, I have high expectations and am often the one sending food back to the kitchen. Great stories you have all shared – and, yes, especially Scott’s story of the oncologist. It would not take much if each and every one of us raised our expectations and held people to that standard. Great topic, gentlemen! Keep up the good work. Love the discussions.
Pat Mussieux
Way to grow a pair you guys. I often do the Dale Carnegie thing: Lavish in praise…slow to find fault. That book is however 80 years ago.
Now when I do have an issue, I explain why..because a learning experience is better than “never going there again” and my hope is that some people are stupid and need the learning experience…and I need the experience of teaching more then they likely learn, and the best part is learning to teach my family why they just got embarrassed by Dad…..is so that they don’t do what those people did to us; that caused the teaching experience!!